The Angry, Depressed Child:
Taking a Second Look

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Children are thought to be happy and carefree, which can make them a source of joy in your home. When your child seems to be constantly irritable and/or seems unable to manage everyday challenges at home or in school, you may want to give your child’s anger a second look. These outbursts could possibly be a sign or symptom of something more than anger, such as depression.

Acting out the Anger

A child experiencing symptoms of depression may not exude the same cheerfulness or lightheartedness common for many youngsters. Instead, your child may appear to be sad or uninterested in the usual things that would make them happy, such as; toys, games, friends, etc. If your child is depressed, you may note other symptoms including changes in eating and sleeping habits, unexplained physical pains, and/or a tendency to avoid people.

Children with depression are likely to have problems focusing and performing well in school. Symptoms can be easily misunderstood. Your child may be more likely to be corrected, even disciplined, which could further induce sadness and confusion. Not understanding what is happening, your child may express their dissatisfaction, frustration and confusion in the best way they know how – anger.

Don’t be Afraid to Act

Ignoring your child’s depressive symptoms or waiting to see if they improve on their own could cause your child further suffering and pain. It could be beneficial to talk with your child’s teachers and/or pediatrician to discuss your concerns. There could be even more benefit in seeking out a professional counselor to explore what is truly going on.

Depression is treatable, particularly if it is diagnosed early. Unfortunately, if depression is left untreated symptoms will likely increase and even worsen. Finding the right help can make a big differences.

Counseling to Treat Anger

Helping your child to feel better is likely at the top of your priority list, however, know that your child’s depression can cause other members of the family to be affected as well. If you have other young children, they too may sense and feel that something is going on, especially if conflicts erupt often. You may also notice that you and your spouse are affected by the tension that pervasive anger can cause.

If your child is showing signs of depression, it could be in your family’s best interest to see a licensed, independent therapist contracted with Carolina Counseling Services – Fayetteville, NC. Your therapist will be able to provide the necessary interventions and approaches to address your child’s unique symptoms and help your family begin to heal. Don’t wait, call CCS today to schedule your first appointment.

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