Anyone can be a bit resistant and defiant when they are hungry, tired, stressed or upset, this is even more true for children. It can be a “normal” part of a child’s developmental process to argue, talk back, search for reason, and/or disobey their parents from time to time. But, if your child is constantly hostile, uncooperative or defiant there could be something more going on. Your child may be experiencing symptoms of Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD), often characterized by a persistent pattern of angry or irritable mood, vindictive behaviors and defiance towards authoritative figures.

The Symptoms of Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD)

The oppositional nature of children can make it difficult to determine whether your child is strong-willed or meets criteria for ODD. If you notice that your child is openly uncooperative and hostile, easily loses their temper, easily becomes annoyed, rebels against rules, and is quick to blame others, there may be a need to look closer.

ODD can become more severe when it occurs in multiple settings. If their symptoms are prevalent in multiple settings such as home and school, your child may be experiencing more severe symptoms. ODD can be overwhelming, these behaviors can push your patience to the limits. You may be left feeling guilt, frustration, embarrassment, and possibly even fear.

Responding to Your Child’s Needs

Oppositional Defiance is a disruptive childhood behavioral pattern that can be effectively treated. While this is treatable, most parents lack the tools to respond to what a child with ODD needs. Early intervention is important. When left untreated, ODD may develop into more serious conduct such as law-breaking behaviors and self-harm. Without intervention, these progressive symptoms can continue into adulthood and significantly impact their relationships, career, and general quality of life.

What your child may need is a comprehensive diagnostic evaluation by a professional. Most experts agree that therapy is effective in treating ODD. A well trained therapist will be able to complete a thorough assessment and help you and your child work toward recovery.

Finding an Ally in the Fight Against ODD 

Raising a child with Oppositional Defiant Disorder can be challenging. Apart from a powerful mix of patience and strength, you deserve help from well-trained specialists. At Carolina Counseling Services – Fayetteville, NC, our contracted therapists offer expertise to help you and your child end ODD. Call now to request an appointment!

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