Adolescence can be a very difficult time for some children. This stage of development often involves some defiance, though you may be left wondering when has this defiance gone beyond what is acceptable? When does healthy questioning and finding a sense of independence turn into defying authority? It can be incredibly difficult to know when this line is crossed.

The Occasional Opposition

Even well-behaved children may exhibit oppositional attitudes from time to time or at certain stages in their development. They may occasionally talk back, not follow rules, give you the cold shoulder, even rant or scream. This can happen with anyone when they are tired, stressed, hungry or upset. An emotional or strong-willed teen may demonstrate this kind of behavior more often, and still be within “normal limits”. It is when these behaviors are frequent, intense or interfering with functioning that they may require further attention. Your child may be experiencing symptoms of Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD).

What is Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD)?

Symptoms of ODD can include:

• Consistent irritability and resentfulness
• Unnecessary arguments with adults or authority figures
• Excessive questioning and defying of rules
• Disobeying directions and refuses to act in accordance with rules
• Deliberately challenging rules to upset or annoy adults
• Blaming others for their mistakes or misbehavior
• Quick-tempered and is easily annoyed by situations/people
• Talking back or being spiteful once upset
• Retaliating and with vindictive attitude

If your child exhibits several (4-5) of the above symptoms, they may have ODD. Therapy can help you and your child. When you better understand what is going on for them you can better support them. ODD can be challenging; you deserve support too.

Taking The Next Step

Early intervention can make a world of difference. The longer symptoms go untreated the more they can impact your child’s functioning in school, relationships etc. The sooner help is found the better your child’s prognosis will be.

Helping your adolescent may involve therapy, learning new skills and techniques to manage behaviors and to help build positive family interactions. You don’t have to go through this trying period alone; Carolina Counseling Services – Fayetteville, NC can help. Call for an appointment. We are only a call or text away.