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Depression has many ways of masking itself. In children, it can be mistaken as a “normal” part of emotional and psychological changes that accompany growth. Due to this, depression often goes undiagnosed and untreated when it comes to kids. Their symptoms may appear a bit different than adults as well which can add to further confusion. When a child acts out or is quick to anger, it may be a symptom of depression.

It may not be unusual for a child to have bad moods and occasionally feel irritable. These negative feelings tend to come and go, especially when the stressor or trigger has been resolved. However, when symptoms or moods persist for days, weeks, or even longer it may be something more.

The Role of Parents

In the past, it was believed that depression was not experienced by children, that it was a passing stage in any teenager’s life. Many parents simply dismissed mood changes or preferred to view the matter as a family concern that could be settled privately. Today, more is known about childhood depression and the importance of getting help as soon as the symptoms are noticed.

As a parent, you may be inclined to blame yourself. Unfortunately, this is what many parents do. Depression can happen to anyone; it is not your fault. You are not to blame, and you have control over what you do next.  

Children live in a world controlled by adults and can feel powerless over what’s going on around them, including their physical, emotional and behavioral health. This means that parents and other adults have a greater ability to make a difference.

When Symptoms May Require Attention

As mentioned previously, it may not be helpful to blame yourself or to assume guilt. Instead, you may want to take action to help your child. Even if they react angrily, stating that there is no need for help, it can be important to remind your child you and your family are there to provide support during difficult times.

When a problem may seem too difficult to handle, a professional can offer help. If depressive symptoms remain untreated, depression can become a major risk factor for self-harming behaviors. Don’t delay treatment. The National Mental Health Association states “more than 80% of people who get treatment say it helps” . Early diagnosis and therapy can be the key to such success.

Licensed, independently contracted therapists with Carolina Counseling Services – Fayetteville, NC have expertise in various types of therapy that have proven to be effective in the treatment of depression. Recovery is possible. Call CCS now to request an appointment.

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