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What is Mental Load?

Being an adult today often means that you are excessively busy. There can be many responsibilities and so many things to balance; work, homelife, relationships, wellness, the list can seem never-ending. If you feel like you are on a tightrope while trying to juggle you certainly aren’t alone. Many of these responsibilities are evident and even visible to others. What is not is the mental load. This term has been made more popular as of late, though that doesn’t mean you know exactly what it is.  What is Mental Load? Mental load refers to the [...]

How Mental Load Affects Your Mental Health

Life is full of responsibilities. Some of them are visible and some are not. The visible responsibilities we may have are going to work, taking care of pets and children, keeping up our homes etc. People can see these tasks and they can be tiring but perhaps not as tiring as some of the more invisible responsibilities that we have.  These often quiet, invisible tasks are what we call “mental load”. This is all the behind the scenes work we do in order to execute tasks and keep things moving along. If you are going [...]

Creativity Unwrapped: Finding Your Flow This Holiday Season

When life feels overwhelming, finding small ways to escape can provide much-needed relief. Whether you’re navigating anxiety, depression, or trauma, creativity and personal interests are powerful tools for self-care and healing. Creativity doesn’t have to mean traditional hobbies like painting or playing music. It can include simple pleasures—watching a favorite TV show, experimenting in the kitchen, or journaling thoughts you’ve been carrying for too long. Creative Healing Engaging in activities you enjoy isn’t just a distraction—it’s a way to reset your mind and body. Creative and leisure activities activate the brain’s reward system, releasing dopamine [...]

Not Every Therapist is Right for You

Deciding to go see a therapist can be difficult. Finding the right therapist can be even more challenging. It can take a lot of courage to recognize and accept that you may need some help. Most folks do some research, online or through word of mouth, in order to find the therapist that may be right for them. A lot of effort can be placed into making a selection. But what happens if you start seeing your chosen counselor and…. You don’t like them???? Stop going, therapy isn’t for you. I AM JUST KIDDING. Though [...]

The First Step is the Hardest

“Take the first step in faith. You don’t have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step.” - Martin Luther King, Jr.  Beginning something, anything new can be remarkably difficult. So difficult you may even need to resort to beginning your first blog post with a quote. If you are having a hard time beginning again, you are not alone. I am right there with you.  Taking the first step toward something new in life can be exciting and terrifying all at the same time. Sometimes we wait to feel “all in” before [...]

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