Depression has many ways of masking itself. In children, it can be undiagnosed and untreated due to the tendency for it to be mistaken as a “normal” part of emotional and psychological changes that accompany growth. When a child acts out or burst into anger, it may be a sign that your child is experiencing symptoms of depression.

It may not be unusual for a child to have bad moods and occasionally feel irritable. These negative feelings tend to ease with time, especially when the stressor or trigger has been resolved. However, when the depressive state or mood persists for days, weeks, or even longer to the point at which it is limiting the child’s ability to function normally, then it may be something more.

The Role of Parents

In the past, it was believed that depression was not experienced by children, that it was a passing stage in any teenager’s life. Many parents simply dismissed the issue or preferred to view the matter as a family concern that could be settled privately. Today, more is known about childhood depression and the importance of getting help as soon as the symptoms are noticed.

As a parent, you may be inclined to blame yourself for your child’s depressive condition. While it’s true that parental separation, problems in school, illness or death in the family can lead to short and long term depression, parents are not necessarily the cause and are not to blame. It is the negative experiences that can shape depression.

Children live in a world controlled by adults and can feel powerless over what’s going on around them, including their physical, emotional and behavioral condition. This means that parents and other adults have a greater ability to make a difference and to look after a child’s welfare.

When the Symptoms May Require Attention

As mentioned previously, it may not be helpful to blame yourself or to assume guilt. Instead, you may want to take action to help your child. Even if he or she reacts angrily, stating that there is no need for help, it can be important to remind your child you and your family are there to provide support during difficult times.

When a problem may seem too difficult to handle, a professional can offer help. If depressive symptoms remain untreated, depression can become a major risk factor for self-harming behaviors. Don’t delay your child’s treatment. Statistics show that depression has an 80% success ratio when treated properly, early diagnosis and therapy can be the key to such success.

Licensed, independently contracted therapists with Carolina Counseling Services – Fayetteville, NC have expertise in various types of psychotherapy that have proven to be successful in the treatment of depression. Your child deserves the kind of therapy a trained professional can provide so that they can face uncertain or stressful circumstances more effectively. Call CCS now to request an appointment.

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