Carolina Counseling Services - Resolving Relationship Issues With a Third Wheel
How Do I Set Up my FIRST Appointment?
- Call: (910) 485-6336 (Fastest way to schedule)
- Text: (910) 308-3291 (Reply will be via phone)
- Email: Click to send email (You must include your phone number, because replies will only be made by telephone to ensure security/privacy)
- Call or Text for your New Patient Appointment Anytime!
- Appointment scheduling for NEW clients: Mon-Fri 8:30am-5:15pm
- New client appts may be scheduled when therapists have openings, which may include daytime, evenings and weekends.
- Established/Standing Appointments are made directly with your therapist!
- Some Therapists schedule appointments Mon-Fri 8am-8pm and Saturdays (if requested)
- Referrals: MOST beneficiaries do NOT need a Referral!
- 1310 Raeford Rd Suite 2 Fayetteville, NC 28305
ADMINISTRATIVE OFFICE FOR NEW CLIENT REGISTRATION:
For your first appt at the Raeford Rd location come to this address:
Our Mailing Address:
PO BOX 9909 Fayetteville, NC 28311
Resolving Relationship Issues With a Third Wheel
Even the best love or romantic relationships run into a few bumps down the road; yours will not be any different. Like many unions, you will be faced with issues and conflicts. When these start to affect your relationship as a couple in a negative way, don’t ignore the signs and don’t become hopeless either.
Recognize the fact that you have the power to change the state of your relationship. One option you have in your arsenal is couples counseling (Insurances refer to it as “family counseling”.) It is a form of therapy that can help both of you identify and understand the sources of your conflicts, and what you can do to stay in your union happily.
“Love Doesn’t Make the World Go ‘Round”
Often, love has nothing to do with marital conflicts; conflicts happen even when you love each other. Yet, love has to be there for both of you to decide you’ll do what it takes to see better and happier days as a couple. The truth is conflicts happen because you are two different people with totally different perspectives, opinions, experiences, family backgrounds, etc.
Love can be very uplifting, however, you can feel deflated and hurt when your trust is violated. Love can be your strength to overcome many types of adversities, or can be your weakness if you allow your partner to continually treat you unjustly. If you can find the right balance you might just discover that indeed it can make “your world go ‘round.”
Stressors Straining Your Marriage
As a couple, your relationship will be potentially strained on a day-to-day basis having stressful circumstances affecting you individually or as partners. Illness in the family, tight finances and debts, different parenting styles and having problematic children, and different views are the most usual sources of marital conflicts. More serious stressors include unfaithfulness, jealousy and insecurities, and terminal or severe physical and psychological disorders.
Ignoring these stressors and not acting on the underlying problems can take a toll on your relationship. Dissatisfaction and misery can become too profound breeding anger, resentment and contempt. These feelings will blur your sense of fairness and judgment thereby causing you to argue more often.
Loving the “Third Wheel”
Most couples would want to keep relationship problems private, but spilling the beans can’t be helped as both of you would attempt to seek guidance, enlightenment and validation from friends and relatives. Unfortunately, they may feel strongly for one and not come up with a fair judgment; that can be the bane of your marriage and the last straw to your separation. If you must confide, choose the best “third wheel,” a licensed counselor who has experience in working with couples/relationships. Counselors are not only neutral; they can also be trusted to keep your private information confidential.
That is what Carolina Counseling Services can do once you decide to come to us to proactively work on your relationship issues with your spouse. Couples who acknowledge the importance of “effort” in keeping a marriage happy stand to have a very close, rewarding relationship. Let Carolina Counseling Services be the “third wheel” to assist you in achieving a happy marriage.
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Confidential / Private Sessions
Carolina Counseling Services contracts independently with Licensed professional counselors/therapists/psychologists who provide a friendly, relaxed atmosphere to everyone. Carolina Counseling Services independently contracted therapists assist individuals, couples, families, and children with counseling services that will help put your life back on track. Working with both non military and military is a joy and the therapist you choose will be happy to assist you whether you are a "civilian", or if you are a dependent or retiree.
Counseling and Therapy are often used interchangeably in our English language. The same is true for Counselor and Therapist. It really doesn't matter which word you use. When you need help, it is best to talk to someone who is not only objective, but who has had lots of experience helping others who have been in similar situations as yourself. A friendly Counselor or Therapist who is trained, licensed and experienced is the one who can assist the most. You don't have to figure it out alone. All independently contracted therapists are licensed, friendly professionals. Call to schedule your appt now!
If we can't help you, we will be happy to refer you to someone who can. We look forward to assisting you!!!.
Evening and Weekend Appts Available with specific therapists
Evening and Weekend appointments: We have therapists available for appointments from 8am to 8pm Monday through Friday. Some therapists have Saturday appointments available if requested.
Serving Areas: Carolina Counseling Services
Counties: Cumberland, Hoke, Bladen, Sampson, and Robeson Counties, NC
Areas: Fayetteville NC, Ft Bragg NC, Pope Field NC, Hope Mills NC, Raeford NC, Rockfish NC, Silver City NC, Cedar Creek NC, Bowmore NC, Autryville NC, Parkton NC, Dundarrach NC, Broadway NC, Lumber Bridge NC, Rex NC, Eastover NC, Stedman NC
Military Community areas: Ardennes NC Bataan NC, Casablanca NC, Anzio Acre, NC, Corregidor NC, Bougainville NC, Hammond Hills NC, Nijimegen NC, Cherbourg NC, Normandy NC, Bastogne NC, Pope NC, Ste Mere Eglise NC,
Zip Codes: 28301, 28302, 28303, 28304, 28305, 28306, 28307, 28309, 28312, 28314